Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Happy New Year?!

So here it is 2009….according to some the world is ending in just 3 years. I better get to my list of “Things to do before I Die” ASAP. So the year has started off pretty damn interesting so far and we are only 13 days in….i spent my first time in Glamis and had the best time ever! Cant get enough of the sand! But coming back to home was a little less thrilling….i came back to an email from my best friend of 10 years (well at least I thought she was) informing me of her love for my ex of 3 years and basically telling me they are going to be together and blah, blah, blah. Now at first my reaction was just initial shock, couldn’t say a thing and kinda had that look on my face like a deer in head lights. Then as I sat there a little longer my reaction turned to anger….now some men (actually most) think that this shouldn’t be a problem as they freely tend to share their women between them…but as us ladies know, that is like the #1 no-no on the list of “What Not to Do” between you and your best friend. Now mind you, I have no desire to be with the worthless, cheating, shit bag…..but of all the men she chooses him.

Its funny because when we were in high school she pulled many of times this same situation and I always thought it was a adolescent teenage thing….well obviously it hasn’t changed. So anyway, I wrote an email basically wishing them both well (although not so kindly) and went on about my day. Surprisingly loosing her as a friend, as shocking as it is, wasn’t that hard for me. Maybe because all along I knew she was a horrible friend anyway. So that’s how my 2009 started off, with a bang. Now heres to hoping the rest of the year goes a lot better now that I have unloaded some worthless baggage in my life (oopps did I say that out loud!?)

1 comment:

  1. Strange how some people seem to thrive on leftovers... especially since they're almost always cold and moldy. Always best to get it when it's hot and fresh. But I guess it's just a matter of personal taste.